This One is for the Husbands
Dec 31, 2025
I was genuinely moved this week watching how many men confidently and happily shared the Ignite flyer on WhatsApp. Ignite opens a conversation many people hesitate to have, and I deeply appreciate everyone who stepped forward to support it.
Ignite is a course for women. It’s built around the conversations every woman needs to be part of. The ones about femininity, inner life, pleasure, strength, doubt, desire, and what it actually means to live as a Torah inspired woman in the world. Not theoretically. Embodied.
Ignite is immersive and transformative. It’s designed to awaken a woman’s inner wisdom and help her step into the radiant, grounded self she’s always been and quietly yearned to live as. Ignite is every hidden truth women have ever sought.
But this email is for the husbands.
Because when it comes to investing in something like this, women often doubt themselves. They question if they’re worth it. They wonder if this will really touch the struggle they don’t know how to name. They fear hoping again, trying again, trusting again.
So this is for the husbands.
Because you need this course too.
No, not Ignite for men.
You need your wife to take Ignite.
And you need to support her while she does.
Ignite is for women, but it never stays contained there. The effects ripple outward into marriages, homes, and children in ways that are felt far beyond the borders of the course platform and long after the program ends.
Raizy shared this after participating:
“The guided meditation of staring into my husband’s eyes for 22 minutes created one of the biggest breakthroughs for us. I was able to see him in such a vulnerable way, express it to him, and build us. Reflecting on how I see myself through his eyes was incredibly powerful. The love and bond that deepened can’t be explained, it’s felt.
It also helped me see my kids differently. It’s like their eyes started talking to me. I wasn’t able to read their feelings as clearly before. We did the meditation a few times and it changed everything.
Ignite helped me give myself what I needed without resentment and helped me let go of things I didn’t even know I was carrying. It strengthened my relationship with my mother too. I understand her differently now and feel how much she tried with the tools she had. Thank you for this gift.”
Ignite isn’t just for the women who enroll.
It’s for their husbands.
Their homes.
Their children.
Ignite is about inviting more pleasure, laughter, and emotional safety into daily life. And when the matriarch, the nervous system of the home is supported, the entire home benefits. There’s no way around that.
Since men often appreciate hearing things from a Torah source, here’s one of my favorites:
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“Honor your wives so that you may become wealthy.”
— Rava, to the people of Mechoza (Bava Metzia 59a)
Rava wasn’t just a towering Torah scholar. He was also a sharp businessman. He understood the nature of an ROI - return on investment.
He taught that thriving communities begin in thriving homes. And that within the home, blessing flows through honoring women.
I know men today carry a lot. Providing, leading, holding responsibility, being leaned on. It’s not simple.
And I’ve also never seen a man not succeed when his wife was truly thriving.
So if your wife is considering Ignite, this is your invitation to stand behind her. Encourage her. Make space for her. Trust that this course isn’t an indulgence, it’s the infrastructure your home has been waiting for.
Register today and get your playbook in time for our first module.
We Ignite January 8.
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Ah! And here's the flyer I finally managed to create!
Still not able to capture the essence of the Feminine on an 8x11 .... but it's a start.
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