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Done Being Fine choice self love vessel Oct 24, 2025

It’s stupid-early. 5:45am. 

House is quiet, kids asleep, and I should be making the most of this precious time.
Instead, I'm here, thinking about the ...

Want to. Need to. Choose to. choice parenting sleep vessel Oct 21, 2025

Remember when we slept till noon?

Like when we were teens and had no pressing reason to get out of bed?
Or maybe when there were too many reasons to g...

Tra-oo-ma (and Episode 6!) choice podcast trauma vessel Sep 17, 2025

When I was 21, I published my second novel, called Invisible Me.

Some of you may have read it. It’s a novel about a girl who is selectively mute, an ...

Magic and Mayhem (and the Deadline) azamra breathwork chaos choice magic May 06, 2025

Esther messaged me last night after reading through the Azamra landing page:

WOW. I wish I could do this. I’m just not ready yet. But iyH one day. I’...