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Looking for Something? mothers therapy vessel Oct 13, 2026

We all Are. 

Even me. (Oh, and Vessel registration closes this Friday.)

A friend sent me a message this morning:


“Your mother told me she's simpl...

Got Married? inner work marriage relationship vessel Oct 12, 2026

Then your spouse joins Vessel for free.

Yes. The person you married. The one whose smile you once found charming and whose chewing now occasionally r...

Text Message vessel Oct 07, 2026

Someone recently asked a friend of hers, a Vessel participant, “Why would I join Vessel? Couldn’t I just read a book? Learn a sefer?”

Fair question. ...

Are We Real? choose life motherhood stories vessel Oct 06, 2026

If you’re new here, welcome.

There are a lot of new names on this list lately, and I’m so glad you found your way here.

And if you’ve been here for ...

Need a Hug? hashem hug sukkot vessel Sep 25, 2026

There’s actual biology behind why a hug can make everything feel a little more okay.

Affectionate touch can increase oxytocin, the hormone associated...

(Sourdough) Baby Fever life motherhood sourdough vessel Sep 23, 2026

Before we get into today’s random yet profound insight, I have a small favor to ask.

Who do you know who would love these emails?

Someone who thinks...

Chickens Should Wear Diapers accidents motherhood vessel Sep 16, 2026

Tiny favor before we begin; think of one person who would love getting these emails every week. The stories, the questions, the laughs, the occasional...

Choosing Life cancer choose life elul vessel Sep 09, 2026

This time of year gives me all the feels.

The weather changes almost overnight, summer somehow disappears without asking permission, school buses clo...

Confessions elul sorry surrender vessel Sep 03, 2026

I have a confession to make.

I’ve never actually attended Selichot.

You know how it is. I had little kids at home. I couldn’t leave. I couldn’t find...

You Want the Real Story? patterns story vessel Aug 26, 2026

Do you want the real story?

I mean the real one.

The version with the characters and the screenshots and the dramatic plot developments. Who said wh...

40 women, 40 Mystics, and 40 days to Vessel! chicago elul kindness mystics podcast vessel Aug 24, 2026

I landed back from Chicago at midnight, on 24 hours of absolute adrenaline, completely and utterly wiped, and I don't know that I'll ever truly have t...

Dollar Sized Miracles community dollar love miracle support vessel Aug 17, 2026

I don’t even know how to tell this story.

I wasn’t going to send an email this week.

The kids and I are taking a much-needed week to ourselves, doin...

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