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What's It Worth? chanukah gift ignite love worthy Dec 17, 2025

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about worth.

Not the kind we assign numbers to.
But the kind that shows up in what we're willing to invest in, stay wi...

Vessel or Ignite? What Came First? chanukah chassidus course ignite light vessel Dec 16, 2025

It’s one of the questions I get asked most every time registration opens.

After seven cohorts I still don’t think there’s a single right answer.

Bec...

You're Invited In chanukah ignite invitation torah womanhood Dec 15, 2025

As I sat at the menorah last night, I pondered the question that arises in me every year at this time. 

How do we bring more of this light into a wor...

The Conversation conference conversation ignite summit torah Dec 10, 2025

I know the conversation you're thinking about Kindred. 

The one you've been dreading having with your teen.*

The one about the seasons, cycles, bird...

Seasons cycles ignite lessons pain pleasure seasons Dec 03, 2025

I’m in a season.

One of those strange, special ones where life turns itself inside out without waiting for my opinions or approval. A season where ev...

Have You Been Accused? conversation ignite womahood Nov 26, 2025

Of being too much?

Of being unreasonable?

Emotional?

Irrational?

Unmanageable?

If you’re a woman reading this, my guess is that at some point in ...

Priorities friendship listening priorities Nov 19, 2025

A friend recently gently called me out at my woeful levels of availability when it comes to coffee dates and hikes and phone calls and friendship in g...

Time Out breathe parenting time out Nov 12, 2025

I put myself in time out this morning.

My son Deeds has been overdue for learning about Time Outs. He’s a little spoiled this one, born after ten yea...

Miss Calibrated accused growth vessel Oct 29, 2025

Meet Miss Calibrated.

She’s the part in me who loves genuine feedback. 

….Almost as much as Miss Aligned loves thinking she’s already right.

They’r...

Miss Quoted course frum jewish podcast projection torah vessel Oct 27, 2025

Ready to meet Miss Quoted?

It seems to be a week of introductions as I'm getting to meet all the new people who have recently found their way here. 

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Miss Calculated ifs parts training vessel Oct 26, 2025

Remember Miss Understood? The part of me that means well but sometimes gets taken the wrong way?

The amount of feedback you gave me around that e

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Done Being Fine choice self love vessel Oct 24, 2025

It’s stupid-early. 5:45am. 

House is quiet, kids asleep, and I should be making the most of this precious time.
Instead, I'm here, thinking about the ...